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Charlie Bartlett Highlights Teen Prescription Drug Abuse

With its current wide scope and strong influence on people, many journalists, publishers and filmmakers have decided to discuss the very basic things that concern real people these days — love, war, money, sex and even drugs.

Charlie Bartlett is one of the recent movies that discussed the reality of teenage prescription drug abuse. It is a comedy-drama film that revolves around the character Charlie Bartlett, played by Anton Yelchin.

Charlie BartlettCharlie is a teen who came from a wealthy family yet attends a public school after being expelled from different private academic institutions. Other actors in the film are Robert Downey Jr. as Nathan Gardner, the school principal; Kat Dennings as Susan Gardner, Charlie’s love interest and the principal’s daughter; and Tyler Hilton as Murphey Bivens, the school bully. Nathan is an alcoholic, Susan smokes a lot and Murphey beats other students while an assistant films it. These characters have basically covered a lot of teen issues.

Charlie, as the new student in school, was initially unable to fit in. However, by acting as the students’ resident psychiatrist and supplying prescription drugs (with Murphey in charge of selling the drugs), he was able to gain influence in the community. He feigned symptoms during psychiatric sessions and was able to get prescriptions for several medications from different psychiatrists, a strategy also known these days as “doctor-shopping.”

Aside from prescription drug abuse, parent’s alcohol abuse, nicotine abuse and school bullying, the film also presents the issue of teen depression and suicide. One of the school’s students, Kip Crombwell, suffers from depression and attempts suicide by drinking the drugs Charlie has supplied. His depression was rooted on the need for acceptance and low self-esteem.

Some critics thought that the movie lack a clear train of thought, but others see it as a movie that embraced the many different pressures that teens face in their lives. The movie was released in 2007.

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Teen Suicide: Dangerous Signs to Look Out For

The issues surrounding teen suicides are very complex. Suicide is rare among the early youth and steadily grows as they go into their adolescence. According to the CDC (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention), the third-leading cause of death for those 15- to 24 years of age is suicide, surpassed only by homicide and accidents. It is the eighth leading cause of death for people all over the world.
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Teens, male or female, are at risk of suicide, although boys are more likely to commit suicide than girls. Although this is a very tragic and shocking fact, there is a way for parents to prevent this from ever happening. Parents should be wary of depression, because they are almost always connected with thoughts of death.

Here is a list of warning signs that parents should look out for:

•    Troubled romantic relationships
•    Difficulty in maintaining relationships with others
•    Lowered grades and output in school
•    Rebellious and devious behavior
•    Pulling away from friends and family members
•    Drawing, writing or talking (even jokingly) about death
•    Dramatic changes in personality
•    Appearance change
•    Sleep deprivation
•    Alcohol or drug use
•    Having a history of suicidal nature

If you notice that a teen is depressed, do not feel intimidated. Talk to him or her. Reassurance of love and trust is a powerful tool against the feeling of solitude and depression. Always remember to listen and to not judge. Never dismiss your teen’s concerns as something insignificant. If you suspect that your teen is suicidal, then you should seek professional help right away. Ask your doctor for treatment programs available. Suicidal thoughts or inclinations are a medical emergency and toodangerous to ignore.

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Added Teen Pressure: Adjusting to a Stepfamily

As if the pressures are not enough, several teens of this generation have  to go through the added pressure of adjusting to a new family. Divorced or single parents need to remember that managing adolescence is difficult enough, with all the changes that teens have to face, and facilitating a smooth transition for the kids to a stepfamily is as important as finding the right life partner.

Here are some helpful reminders to ensure that your teen is prepared to enter to and accept a new family, and do not engage in escape vices like drug, tobacco or alcohol abuse.

adjusting to a stepfamily1. Introduce your child only to partners you are seriously going out with. Do not introduce him to every person you date or consider dating. Exposing your child to every casual date may give him the impression that the relationships you go into are not really serious. He may also feel the trauma of separation every time your relationships don’t work, and unlike you, your child may not be matured enough to understand and accept this reality.

2. Introduce your child to your new partner slowly. Surprises are only good for birthday parties. Sure, your child may – or may not — be happy that you have found a new love, but do not take risks when it comes to your child and your new relationships. Take it slowly. Let them adjust and do not coerce them into accepting your new partner immediately.

3. Include your child in marriage and wedding plans. When the idea of marriage is already being discussed, make sure that your child is into the plans. Learning it from others would give him the impression that you have a ‘new family’ and that he is only part of the old one. Make sure he knows that you are expanding your family and that he is very much a part of it by allowing him to share his concerns. However, do not also force him to discuss things beyond his comfort level.

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